That moment in a relationship when calls from your partner doesn’t excite you anymore, dates become routine and the relationship becomes stale and lack luster signifies that it’s time to spice things up! Spicing up a relationship involves recreating previously-felt excitement, trying to recapture the pleasure, eagerness and joy that characterized the start of the relationship as well as adding new flavor to the relationship. One must not wait till a relationship becomes full-on boring before trying out a few things. Spicing up a relationship should be a daily endeavor. It is not gender specific and is a huge responsibility because we all know every relationship requires work to work.
Here is the tips for , to create spice in your relationship again
1# Pamper your partner from time to time
One of the best ways to spice up a relationship is to take the time and efforts to work towards it. So do look for opportunities and ways to pamper your partner and even spoil him/her when possible. You need not spend excessively in order to achieve this. Even simple things like, letting her sleep while you get the kids/breakfast ready or bringing home a little gift he will love etc, are some easy ways to show your appreciation towards your partner.
2# Keep the love flowing
Love has no existence unless it’s shown each and every day. While you may say those special three words, there needs to be meaning behind them. Hold hands. Kiss each other in public. Be flirtatious and playful.
3# Let go of old beliefs
Often, relationships are impacted due to old set of beliefs. If you want something out of a relationship, it is very important to let go of such unhelpful beliefs and expectations about what could be. It will take some work but it is entirely possible to create new beliefs about how you can be together and get better aligned with each other.
4# Dress to impress
Once you’re in a relationship, you probably slack off on your looks and it’s likely you don’t dress to catch eyes anymore. Surprise him/her by dressing up nicely and see just how often his eyes land on you.
5# Spend time together-alone
Couples who participate in an activity together-be it working out at the gym, or going for daily walks or even solving a crossword/puzzle together often tend to have stronger and more intimate marriages. It is very important to not let daily activities, kids and work, etc distract you. So find out fun activities to do together. Simple things like going out for movies, or having a cup of coffee with dessert after dinner every day or even having weekly date nights can help you focus on each other without usual distractions.
6# Discuss Your Future Together
When you talk about your future together, it lets both of you know that there’s a strong system of support in your relationship, and that you picture him beside you for the rest of your life. Talking about getting old with each other, buying a new house, or traveling can strengthen your bonds and lead to increased intimacy.
7# Set goals and strive to reach them
When you’re in it for the long term, have goals for both of you to reach. Maybe plan to buy a home in a new neighborhood, work towards a healthier lifestyle, or redecorate a room in your apartment. Ambition is important in a relationship.
8# Work towards a commitment
Every relationship needs work and time. Set aside some time for each other. What is happening in your life now will reveal your level of commitment to one another. Couples should consciously carve out time in order to make passion and love a top priority.
9# Practice open communication
Sometimes a relationship can go south when the people involved stop listening and sharing with each other. Share your ideas, your future plans, and always keep an open mind and ears.
10# Plan a surprise date
Trick your boyfriend into going on a date with you, like old times. Plan something fun and exciting, and be sure it’s something you both like and will enjoy doing.
11# Send HIM Flowers
If you think flowers are just for the ladies, you’ve never been a guy. Their friends might tease them a little, but on the inside they’ll feel more loved than ever. Of course, it doesn’t have to be flowers. Any random surprise gift will make him feel great. He might just take the hint and return the favor!
12# Spend some time apart
Spending too much time together can cause a relationship to get boring. Go out one night with the girls and take some time apart from your guy. Missing each other will keep your relationship full of emotion.
13# Try new things in the bedroom
Sex and physical attraction are important in an exciting relationship. Take turns in the bedroom and spice things up by trying new things.
14# Learn together
There’s nothing better than being able to soak in new knowledge together. Go to a local museum, learn how to cook or bake, or read a book together.
15# Surprise visits
If possible, go to your boyfriend’s job and invite him out to lunch, or just stop by for a few minutes to say hi. Don’t make this a habit, but once every few months a surprise visit is ideal.
16# Have special moments
When the honeymoon phase of the relationship ends, boredom can set in. Find ways to surprise your significant other with a card, a love note, or an unexpected phone call.
17# Encourage new experiences
A mundane relationship can be due to a lack of new experiences. When a couple gets comfortable, they sometimes stray away from doing new things. Avoid this by keeping an open mind and be willing to try new things with your partner.
18# Text Something Sexy
Every now and then, send a flirty, sexy text message to your partner to let them know that you’re thinking about them. It’s a great way to put a smile on his/her face, and who knows? Maybe it will turn into something more steamy.
19# Try Something New in the Bedroom
A study showed that almost 60% of married partners wished they had more variety in the bedroom. It’s easy for a couple to get into a routine, so suggest experimenting a little to heighten up the mood under the covers.
20# Be friends as well
Of course being boyfriend and girlfriend is a step above anything, but most importantly, you’ll want to remain good friends. Listen to each other. Learn new things about each other. Do silly things.
So try this thing’s to make your relationship interesting again. And share your experiences. Keep like and share with your love one. Join facebook page also.