It’s honestly not that hard to figure out when your girl is doing the spread eagle for someone other than you. The only problem I really find is that most men are oblivious to the obvious signs that their girlfriend is cheating, which is all fine and dandy if you like living in ignorant bliss. On the other hand, ignorant bliss doesn’t keep you from contracting the herp from her newly jizz filled cooter, so that’s probably not the best strategy to live by.
Here are the some signs :
1#.She Stops Saying, “I love you.”
Women who are happy love telling others they are happy. So if we’re doing something wrong, they have no qualms about letting us know. If we’re doing things right, they also love to let us know.
If you haven’t heard, “I love you” coming out of her mouth in a long time, something is very wrong. If she loves you, she’ll most certainly tell you quite regularly. If she doesn’t anymore, then well, it might be a little harder for her to express that she’s been going elsewhere for companionship.
2#.She Is Hiding Her Phone
While she’s doing anything she knows she shouldn’t, it’s probably she’ll feel guilty about it. You might notice that in place of hanging out scrolling through Instagram on the couch with you, she put her phone in the other room. She probably doesn’t wish to chance you looking over and finding her in the act. “Women may hide texts, email deals, and telephone calls with a ‘good friend,’” House says. “He can start as only a friend, but it is also progressing into more.”
While you’re out in public areas, her eyes scan the area like she’s trying to find someone. She’s either wanting or worrying an opportunity encounter with her lover. You’ll realize that she only isn’t as calm and focused as before.
4#.You’re Cut Off From Her Family
Her family is now exactly that: her family. One reason for the extra barrier might be to facilitate the eventual separation caused by her cheating or she needs her family to cover up for her. Perhaps the “in-laws” are in the dark as much as you, and would not condone her actions. Whatever her motives, you have discovered that you actually miss the family gatherings that you once dreaded.
5#.She Calls you Insecure
According to experts, women sometimes cheat when they feel like their partners are being too clingy or accusing them of being interested in someone else. It is almost like a self-fulfilling prophecy. So, unless you truly do want her to see you through your tainted glasses, don’t point out your insecurities and physical flaws. If you constantly question if you are good enough for her, she might start to wonder the same thing and look for something better.”
6#.She Can’t Stop Nagging
Do you experience constant nagging and cribbing from her side every time you bring something up? Well, an underlying problem could be bothering her. Perhaps, she’s trying to justify her secret rendezvous with her secret lover on a subconscious level. In order to eliminate her guilt, she could be pointing out your flaws on purpose. When the nagging doesn’t seem to make sense, you need to stay alert.
7#.She’s Always Busy
From the time you started off your journey together, she has loved spending time with you. However, now she is busy all of a sudden. Every time you try to make a plan, she makes an excuse. She hardly spends time with you and says that she has a lot of work to do or has plans with her friends.
8#.She Picks Fights With You
She has adopted this habit of fighting with you for no reason. She accuses you of not being faithful to her. If you are doing nothing wrong, and yet, if you’re being accused for wrong deeds, then it’s time you spot the problem — she’s disinterested in you and might be cheating on you.
9#.She’s Got Secrets
She does not share anything with you anymore. There are so many things that she hides including her messages, contact list, friends and so on. Suddenly now she feels that she needs some space and privacy.
10#.She Does Not Want Sex
She does not find the need of having sex with you. If she does, she clearly seems disinterested and does not enjoy it anymore with you. Even when you show interest, she tries her best to avoid it.
These signs are a clear indication that your woman is cheating on you, or intends to do so. If there is no cheating, the same signs may be a suggestion that the relationship is not where it should be, but don’t get paranoid unless there is a combination of the above signs that make you feel like something is wrong.